Bullying with your child can take place in the school, in the park, in school bus. Harsh comments, gestures, making fun of physical attributes or shy nature are not a very uncommon norm. This really shatters the confidence and self esteem of a child, which parents can build up with their support.
Look for signs: Disinterest in school, sudden changes in temperament (too quiet or too aggressive), stress without any apparent reason, avoiding people – these are all possible symptoms of being bullied.
Form an action plan: After you have identified the source, take your child in confidence and ask him what can help him. You may talk to the teacher; seek support of the authorities or whichever way your child feels comfortable.
Be sensitive: Your child may be so ashamed after being bullied that he may act very inconfident. Don’t lose patience and criticize him for behaving that way. A child who is bullied blames himself for whatever has happened and he needs your support and not your criticism at this point.
Help him make friends: Good friends are great source of confidence and support. Help your child in developing healthy friendship you may organize get together, family day, etc.
Help him develop strong muscles of mind: Let your child express, how hurt he feels. Assure him how everybody faces these things one way or the other and how he should believe in himself and move on. This would relieve him of a lot of stress. Reinforce in your child how much special he is. Count with him his qualities and create opportunities for him to exhibit them. This love and encouragement will not only heal his bruised self-esteem, but also give him the confidence to face such situations with greater strength.