In order to develop right behaviour of our children, it is necessary to be firm in certain things. But exercise your authority in such a way that the child doesn’t develop a mind which questions ‘why dictate me?’ Therefore be firm but friendly.
Draw a line: Don’t be a constant nagger. See for yourself when it is better to ignore and let the child be him self and when you need to control him.
Be consistent: Don’t be firm according to your moods or whims. What is wrong for your child at one time should always be treated as unacceptable behaviour.
Don’t give in: Don’t let your child manipulate your reactions by throwing tantrums or crying whenever you try to discipline him.
Be united: Parents should put up a united front when it comes to exercising control. Don’t contradict each other in front of the child.
Be logical: Don’t shout or discipline your child by showing anger, it never works. Explain him gently the logic behind your being firm. This way he’ll respect your authority even more.